When my husband steps through the back door, he usually peeks in the kitchen sink to discover a clue about the activities of my day. If two coffee cups rest there, he knows I hosted a friend sometime during the day.

True, I could’ve rinsed the cups and placed them in the dishwasher. But for some reason, I like using this as a code for how my day went.

It’s no secret I enjoy coffee, but I especially love it when shared by another. And while I do like the coffee shop experience, the pinnacle of coffee drinking for me is when someone steps into my home and sits at my table. Reader, don’t be alarmed if you are not a coffee drinker. Water, tea, Diet Coke® and often a sparkling water are available. The type of beverage does not dictate the experience. The presence of another person does.

Years ago, I realized I could offer my home, my time, and a cup of coffee to others. It felt like something Jesus might do because he spent a lot of time doing things with people and food. I named this activity, “the ministry of home” because Jesus calls us all into ministry. If that sounds daunting to you, remember ministry is just a fancy word that means “to act as an instrument, agent, or vehicle.”

My friend Shirley models this “ministry” for me. Often, I pop over for an un-announced visit. EVERY time I do, she gladly welcomes me into her home and offers a cup of coffee regardless if she has already had her limit for the day.

My friend Darlene also models this “ministry” for me. Darlene is an excellent seamstress and can make almost anything. Whatever her newest thing involves, I am usually a lucky recipient — soup bowl holders, scrubbies, and beautifully embroidered bookmarks. I rarely leave her home empty handed.

Ministry looks different to different people:

Carolyn likes to take walks with friends.
Becky opens her home for Bible study.
Kenna is great about checking in.

You and I are in the life-improving business to become more like Jesus. How we do that may differ. Please don’t underestimate the value of your ministry because in God’s Kingdom, it all matters.

So if you stop by my house for coffee, leave your dirty cup in the sink. When I eventually wash it, I’ll smile because it will make me think of you once again.

Our dog Buddy moved in with us when he was six months old. Early on during our walks, I never really knew who was walking whom. But each time we returned home, I was pretty sure it was Buddy walking me because my arm felt like a noodle. A heavy leash and strong restraint helped keep him at bay, but Buddy ran a crazy path for as long as his leash would allow. Let’s call it what it was… walking on the wild side. 

It didn’t take long to realize we needed serious leash walking lessons. I didn’t want to stifle Buddy’s enthusiasm. Actually, I was envious of his behavior. Each time we stepped out for our daily “stroll,” my aim was to join Buddy in the adventure so we could both enjoy walking wildly together.

Today, our walks still look a bit out of control. We go this way, that way, over there, up there, down there, all over the place. But after the initial frenzy, Buddy takes his place at my side and before long we step into each other’s rhythm. We often pass other dogs. There is a well-trained Lab, a controlled Scotty, and a senior-citizen Dachshund. Buddy smiles at each of them with his tongue hanging out the left side as if to say, “Top of the morning to you!” 

Buddy loves walking anywhere, anytime — the street, the grass, the mud. He is such a role model to me for living life on the wild side. 

Walking on the wild side does not refer to being immoral or rule-breaking. It means to do things with abandonment, with enthusiasm and excitement. 

Jesus says, “I have come that they have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10, NIV).

Yet sometimes Jesus followers seem so vanilla. We live a safe, unexcited, bland which doesn’t speak favorably to the wild & wonderful life to which He has called us. Perhaps walking on the wild side with Jesus looks a little like walks with Buddy where we: 

Explore every inch of ground as if it’s never been discovered before. 

Sniff every blessed thing along the way because it might not be there tomorrow. 

Smile at people along the way first. 

Taste every stick because it possibly could turn out to be the best stick ever. 

When you walk with Jesus you just might go to places you’ve never been or see things you’ve never noticed. The truth is, you may step in a few puddles and you might get a little muddy. But hey, that’s what makes walking on the wild so much fun. 

 

In my last blog post, I shared that thriving doesn’t differentiate the bottom of the mountain from the top. Truly, we can thrive no matter where we are on our mountain journey. That’s good news!  

So how do we thrive, regardless of where we are on the journey?

We prepare.

Preparation is one of the most important parts of mountain climbing. It’s what makes us strong and gets us ready. 

In order to endure the climb up Huayna Picchu Mountain in Peru, I enlisted a trainer who simulated mountain climbs during our workouts. She helped me build stamina. She motivated me to become stronger. She cheered me on so I could accomplish my goal. 

Those pre-mountain workouts made me feel healthy, strong and confident. Even though preparing was difficult, it was well worth it—not only on mountain-climbing day—but long after the climb.

Just as I prepared physically for my big climb, I’ve learned spiritual training is just as vital for everyday climbing. Reading my Bible first thing in the morning gives me the juice I need for that particular day. The extended benefit is God’s words take root in my heart and thoughts and are useful for future journeys, as well.

Lately, I’ve been reading about the prophet Elijah in 1 Kings. For three and a half years Elijah waits through a drought for God to give him his assignment. These years proved to be a time of preparation for Elijah. During this quiet time of waiting, Elijah saw God’s provision every day through a widow who only had a tiny bit of oil and flour to spare. Yet the jar of flour and jug of oil was not used up until the Lord gave rain on the land (1 Kings 17:14). 

What things did Elijah do during the drought? He waited and watched. Each day for three and and a half years, Elijah witnessed God’s faithfulness with food from a jar that never ran dry. 

What a great lesson for me when I think preparation is always “doing something.” Sometimes preparation is waiting and watching. Waiting to see God’s faithfulness in action. And watching to see how that action proves God to be true and trustworthy. Almost always, it is through the little things God is faithful which is why we often miss it. That’s why droughts are necessary. They allow us the opportunity to wait and watch. In the end, this preparation allows us to see God’s power and provision when we might have otherwise missed it. 

We all experience highs and lows that feel a lot like mountain journeys. Most likely yours looks different than mine. Your mountain may be easily defined with clear steps forward. Or it may look more like an obstacle course—not like a mountain at all. 

Wherever you are on your journey, I want you to know I am cheering for you! I’m hoping you grasp the challenge to thrive so you can see how God, who loves you more than you can imagine, has prepared you for your particular mountain climb.

The Bible says this about God’s preparation for your big plans: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him” (1 Corinthians 2:9).

His plans are bigger than you can even imagine! 

Whether you are experiencing a season of drought, a tough climb, or challenging steps; I encourage you, dear reader, to embrace this time of preparation. You will soon embark on a mountain journey, even if you don’t see it now. Take it one step at a time. Begin today.

This is progress, and progress leads to thriving, no matter the size of step. 

A few years ago our family visited Machu Picchu in Peru. In researching for the trip, I decided to climb Huayna Picchu, the smaller of the two mountains at the historic Inca site. Known as the “Stairs of Death,” this climb leads you to one of the most rewarding and amazing views.

Problem.

Getting there.

The climb consists of hiking, climbing steps and sometimes even crawling. Recognized by many as one of the most incredible adventures on the planet, the entire trip  —from start to finish — is usually completed in only three hours.

Mountain climbing is not my thing. I’m a scaredy-cat.

Yet, I had been asking Jesus to take me to risky places I wouldn’t normally go because of my fear. Professionally, I had just finished writing my first book which took me totally out of my comfort zone. The project had challenged me mentally and spiritually. I needed a break so a physical challenge piqued my interest. I was in pretty good shape so why not try a mountain climb to take me to my next risky place?

When I look back at the total mountain climbing journey, the word thrive comes to mind. The top of the mountain was exhilarating, but the peak was only part of the experience. The preparation for the climb, the actual climb, and the descent added to the whole adventure.

In reflection, I discovered a lot about thriving and realized mountain experiences may look different at different times in our lives.

Living through a pandemic has helped me see that we can thrive even when the mountain doesn’t meet our expectations or the climb doesn’t feel all that risky. This realization made me ask, “Is it possible to thrive when the whole world is placed on hold?” I say, “Yes.”

If you struggle because you feel like you aren’t thriving, I know how you feel! I’ve struggled too. Let me share with you a definition I discovered which helps me look at thriving in a whole new way. According to Merriam-Webster we thrive when we progress toward or realize a goal in despite of or because of circumstances.

I love this definition of thrive because progress is part of thriving and circumstances are not qualifiers. You really can thrive no matter where you are on your journey and regardless of what your mountain looks like.

We tend to think we thrive only when we’ve reached the top of the mountain. But progress is thriving. And progress occurs more often on the journey up and down the mountain than it does at the top.

So here’s what I’ve learned: Thriving doesn’t differentiate the bottom of the mountain from the the top of the mountain.

This is great news because we can truly thrive no matter where we are on our mountain journey. Instead of being overwhelmed by how high the mountain is in front of you, perhaps all you need to do today is turn around and see how far you’ve already come!

In my next post, I will share more about getting up the mountain when it seems impossible.

One of my favorite episodes of Laverne & Shirley, an old TV show about two whacky female friends; is when the main characters save every penny so they can take a dream vacation to “near-Mexico.” Not Mexico. Not New Mexico. But “near” Mexico.

Envision with me all the silliness:

Their luxurious hotel room becomes a construction debacle with only three completed walls.
The exotic swimming pool consists of a blow-up pool in the hotel lobby.
The tropical weather turns into an unseasonable hurricane.

There is no real moral to Laverne and Shirley’s vacation story (it’s a sitcom with no obligation) except to notice each of the two character’s perspectives. Laverne calls the place a dump, thinks the pool is stupid and complains about unseasonable weather. Shirley, on the other hand, keeps her chin up and finds bright spots in all the absurdity.

I share all this with you to ask if you think this sounds a little like our own expectations during COVID.

In 2020, we certainly gave up exciting and potentially wonderful experiences only to replace them with “near fun” opportunities. We engaged in new hobbies and habits that seemed short-lived or felt second-best.

For many of us, it’s been difficult to say we’ve thrived in the past year. But somehow, we survived and honestly, some days that felt like a win.

However, some have truly thrived during this time. They’ve taken the Shirley approach, so to speak.

That’s why — in the coming blog posts — I thought it might be fun to share some thoughts about what I’ve witnessed about thriving over the past year. What does it look like when you choose to thrive, not just survive, even when circumstances try to tell you otherwise?

One thing I’m learning is thriving — rather than just surviving — can be a real struggle. That’s not only during COVID, but at other times in my life.

I’ve been calling this past year a mountain journey. I’d love for you to join me on it, no matter where you are on your own personal journey.

My hope is that as we learn together, you will begin to say with me, “Life isn’t just what happens at the mountain top, it’s also the climb and the descent that make it both Wild & Wonderful!”

I’ve been keeping a bottle of sparkling grape juice and a container of whipped cream in my fridge just in case a celebration is needed. When I awoke on January 1, 2021, I knew both would be called into action.

The television morning shows were quick to forget the events of this past year and pretend they never happened. I started feeling bad for 2020. What if good things really occurred but we forgot to celebrate them?

This past year, we experienced sadness, confusion, poor health, isolation, and other disappointments; too many to list. We spent plenty of time lamenting over our struggles and challenges. Sure, hardship tests us, but it also shapes us and makes us grow. Remembering this, I wanted to give 2020 the respect it deserved.

I realized there were actually things to celebrate even if I’d forgotten them. I asked God to help me remember, especially the little things. Why? So I could focus on His faithfulness. It didn’t take long to see the biggest reason to celebrate 2020 comes from something Jesus said, “…and surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20

What a great reminder, throughout all of 2020, Jesus was there, traveling with me, regardless the direction circumstances of the year took me. What a reason to celebrate!

Now what?  I’m off to make a cup of hot cocoa with a huge dollop of whipped cream on top.

 

“For the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” Deuteronomy 31:6