Socks are a dirty reminder of why laundry is a chore. Exhibit A: my husband. Steve is kinda a clean foot freak. He doesn’t like dirty socks, which is a problem since every day he gets his socks pretty dirty. In an attempt to keep his feet fresh he uses baby powder to avert moisture.

At night, he removes his socks and leaves them in a wad. So when I go to launder the socks, I have to pull them apart so they will get clean in the washer. When I do this, often times there is a poof of smoke made by the baby powder.

I wish I could tell you I am a perfect wife who never thinks bad thoughts about her spouse but that would not be true because for a long time, this sock thing really bugged me.

Standing at the washer one day, I was in a foul state of mind and not happy with the whole sock situation. Out of the blue, the Holy Spirit got ahold of my heart and head. I am not always sure how God speaks: if it’s audible or if it is simply a voice in my head. But I am certain I heard from God while holding a dirty sock. The voice said, “Instead of thinking bad thoughts about Steve, why don’t you instead pray for him and think good thoughts about him?” Gulp.

I know it sounds silly but it took me a minute because I honestly wasn’t ready to give up being mad about the socks. Since I heard God speaking to me about this, you would think it would be pretty easy to obey. I love my husband and truly want what’s best for him, including clean socks. So with a shrug and a sigh, I surrendered. I started using the washing and folding time to pray for my husband. I prayed for wisdom, safety for him and all his employees, success, and good relationships to name a few things.

I cannot promise I never had ill feelings about his dirty socks again, but the sour thoughts did come in lesser degrees. Over time, my heart softened because I believed Jesus when he said persistent and consistent prayers matter.

“And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened” (Luke 11:9-10).

Years later, when Steve retired, he shared with me that the one success of which he was most proud. While he oversaw his business, not one employee was seriously injured and no fatalities happened on his watch. I had never realized the burden he carried each day for the safety of his employees. I wondered, had my laundry room prayers made a difference? I’d like to think so.

Each Tuesday I meet with a group of gals to study the Bible. We call ourselves Sisters of the Roundtable, but depending on where we meet the table may be any shape. There is something special about digging into God’s Word with a group. It helps me remember truths I have learned in the past and also helps me gain new wisdom from deep study or conversation with others. When this happens, I often experience a closeness with Jesus.

I suspect I feel this way because Jesus promises that if we gather, he is present.

He said, “For where two are three gather together as my followers, I am there among them” (Matthew 19: 20). 

Some Tuesday mornings, I feel like slipping off my shoes and imitate Moses who took off his sandals. He did this because he knew he was in the presence of God and thus standing on holy ground.

This happened once when our group was studying Esther 5:1-3. These verses offer a beautiful description of Queen Esther entering into the presence of King Xerxes. While studying these verses, the Holy Spirit encouraged me to replace King Xerxes name with God and Esther’s name with my name. Doing so helped me discover a way to describe the beautiful relationship between God and me.

I learned how God sees me as royalty and he graciously loves to give his good gifts to me.

You can discover this truth for yourself. Insert your name in the verses below and see how the King of Kings feels about you too!

“On the third day of the fast, (your name) put on her royal robes and entered the inner court of the palace, just across from the king’s hall. Sovereign God was sitting on his royal throne, facing the entrance. When God saw (your name) standing there in the inner court, he welcomed you and held out the gold scepter to you. So (your name) approached and touched the end of the scepter. Then God asked you, “What do you want, (your name)? What is your request? I will give it to you, even if it is half the kingdom!”

Despite my many years of teaching, facilitating, and participating in Bible study, it is most likely I would have never thought of this activity had I not been part of this roundtable. As a result, I would have missed this wonderful truth.

Group study is one of many ways to experience the presence of Jesus. If you would like to explore becoming a part of a local group but do not know where to start, I would be happy to help you. And if time and location restraints make it difficult for you to join a group, why not find a trusted friend you can text about your discoveries?

The Bible says, “the word of God is alive and powerful” (Hebrews 4:12). What an amazing resource for each of us in daily living.

Aunt Mary and her niece Julie were once traveling together on an airplane. The plane was small and the turbulence was significant making Mary, Julie and everyone else on board a bit anxious. Mary noticed many of the passengers grasping armrests with white-knuckle grips. As the turbulence increased, she realized she needed to do something to relieve the fears building up in six-year-old Julie.

When the next big dip occurred, Mary enthusiastically let out a single word, “Wheee!!!!!!” With fearful and bulging eyes, Julie snapped her head in the direction of Mary to discover her aunt smiling. Julie smiled too.

Another dip. Another “Wheee!!!”

Another dip. This time in unison of Mary and Julie, “Wheee!!!”

Another dip. This time in unison of nearby passengers, “Wheee!!!”

Mary had turned fear into fun.

Were the passengers ever in danger? According to askthepilot.com, turbulence “is ordinarily seen as a convenience issue, not a safety issue. Conditions might be annoying and uncomfortable, but the plane is not going to crash.”

A friend of mine is in the middle of a complex, yet worthwhile project. Two weeks before “launch” date, I promised to be her “Wheee!!!” person. As she navigates the ups and downs, my job is to remind her about the exciting upside of the adventure she faces.

Do you have a friend who is going through something BIG? Perhaps you could volunteer to be their “Wheee!!!” person. Can you pray them through the days, weeks or months? Can you provide tangible touch points so they know you are thinking about them? Will you earnestly pray for them — not only to make it through — but to find joy along the way?

We all face big things at some point in our lives. In the Bible, during the battle of the Amalekites, as long as Moses held his hands up, the Israelites were winning. Aaron and Hur became the “Wheee!!!” team for Moses. They held his hands up to support his tired arms.

As a “Wheee!” person the spotlight is off of you. But it is such an honor, whatever they are facing, to help someone see it through.

Who knows? The next time you are on an airplane, you just might experience a little bit of turbulence. You know what to do.

Somewhere along I-90 in South Dakota, we were bumping down the road in our motorhome. Mom was driving while my sister and I lounged in the back reading our “Archie” comic books. My brother was sleeping in a bunk above the driver’s seat and dad was reading at the table. Don’t judge us — these were the days when you could drive a motor home down the highway unrestrained by a seatbelt.

The camper made a slight jerk as mom decided to make an unplanned stop at the upcoming exit ramp.

“Why are you exiting the highway?” my dad asked.

My mom replied, “We are stopping at Wall Drug.” Within a few minutes the camper was parked in the middle of nowhere at a giant drugstore.

Why? Because for almost 300 miles, mom had passed over 200 billboards suggesting travelers stop at Wall Drug. The billboards promised all kinds of delights; the original billboard from 1931 simply promised “free ice water.” According to Wall Drug, they have 300 paid billboards, but there are many more unofficial billboards extending from Minnesota to Montana. There is actually a Wall Drug sign in London.

As the story goes, Ted and Dorothy purchased a drug store in 1931 in Wall, South Dakota, population 231 (today 688). Business was grim until Dorothy had the idea to post a billboard along the highway offering free ice water to travelers. An immediate response kept the drugstore in business as customers begin to buy ice cream and snacks in addition to receiving their free water. According to the Wall Drug website, in 1931 the city of Wall was somewhat affectionately known as “the geographical center of nowhere.” Yet today, the store attracts 2 million visitors each year.

Our family drank the free ice water and then purchased some taffy and potato chips. Soon after, refreshed from our stop, we loaded into the camper and resumed our travels on the desolate highway. We continued to Mount Rushmore and spent the night.

It is interesting that after all these years, I barely remember seeing Mount Rushmore, yet I can vividly remember our short stop at a drugstore in the middle of nowhere.

In a way, our lives are sort of like walking billboards, “advertising” what is important by how we live. Thinking about Wall Drug makes me wonder: what does my billboard-of-life say about Jesus?  Are my actions compelling enough to make someone stop and ask?

Fortunately, God has not given us the job to convince people about Jesus. We are simply called to be compelling — to live a life that models Jesus so others will want to experience him too. With Jesus, the Living Water is free.

Jesus said, “Anyone who is thirsty may come to me! Anyone who believes in me may come and drink!” (John 7:37-38a).

Annually I choose a word for the year. In late December, I began to ponder which word might help me focus on a main idea for 2025. Although a word usually “finds” me, I was struggling to claim one for 2025. Normally, I see a word in a variety of places or I sense the Lord nudging me in a certain direction. But so far, it had been crickets. Nothing. Nada.

I had made a list of “good” words, but nothing seemed right. I was looking for something that reflected my feelings about the coming year. I have been sensing God calling me to a certain lifestyle where my hands are loosely open so I can more readily participate in the spontaneous rather than the planned. Truthfully, this makes me uncomfortable. The idea of not having a concrete plan in the coming months is disconcerting.

Then on January 1st, I received a monthly newsletter from my cousin Cindy who happens to be a prolific author. Like me, she chooses a word each year. As she shared her thoughts, I knew her word was also for me. Finally as in years past, my word found me, this time via my sweet cousin.

This quote confirmed it: “I’m sure many would agree that American culture places a high value on accomplishment. Many would also agree that constant “doing” comes at a price, most often, relational erosion. We can lose an awareness of God, of others, and even of ourselves.” Pastor Stephen Van Dop

Therefore, my word for 2025 is PAUSE (often translated in the Bible as Selah). Selah is best described as the opportunity to pause, contemplate, and praise.

My prayer and desire this year is to use PAUSE as an invitation to become more aware of the presence of God so that giving Him praise becomes be my highest calling. And as I practice pausing, I pray it will also help me notice opportunities to nurture relationships with others.

I suspect a lot of days this year might look like a big bunch of nothing.

But regardless, I plan to praise God for the pause.

Friend, what is your word for the year? I would love to hear about the 2025 journey you are about to embark on.

“All the earth worships you and sings praises to you; they sing praises to your name.” Selah Psalm 66:4

P.S. Click here for my cousin Cindy’s website.

They were shepherds doing what shepherds do.

“That night there were shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep” (Luke 2:8).

Up to this point it had been an ordinary day for them, doing ordinary things. But in a moment, everything changed and their ordinary day became extraordinary.

“Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, but the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people” (Luke 2:9-10).

They were told heavenly news and it was going to bring joy to all the people on earth.

“The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David!” (Luke 2:11).

So, they did something unimaginable. The shepherds left their sheep and rushed to see. Think about it, leaving your sheep was unheard of.

“Let’s go to Bethlehem! Let’s see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about… They hurried to the village and found Mary and Joseph. And there was the baby, lying in the manger (Luke 15b, 16).

They could not contain their excitement. They wanted everyone to hear the good news.

“After seeing him, the shepherds told everyone what had happened” (Luke 2:17a).

They went back to their shepherding jobs,  but they were forever changed.

The shepherds went back to their flocks, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen” (Luke 2:20a).

My Prayer for you this Christmas:

May your ordinary turn into extraordinary

May you experience the unimaginable that forever changes you

May the great news of joy overflow to you and others

Above all, may you glorify God and praise Him for His indescribable gift

Merry Christmas!